Many times people will meet in the main lobby and mentioned their interest one flavor of bondage, or domination, spanking, etc - and they will then move the separate room and continue the discussion there.
Simply spending time in the chatroom generates free coins which you can then use to purchase virtual gifts like condoms, vibrators and dildos.
Instant & Private Messaging: You can private message or "whisper" anyone within the chat. A "whisper" will show up in the chatroom text but only be displayed the person you target.
We do not allow discussion of many aspects of the BDSM scene in the main lobby, but asking if anyone is interested and would like to join you in another room is okay.
Sometimes you find people in the main general lobby who are interested in some forms of BDSM chat, when people find others with similar interests they usually go to one of our designated rooms, or create their own.
We try to keep any hardcore BDSM talk or taboo / edgeplay out of the main lobby, and into one of the sub niche rooms.
This keeps the vanilla people from freaking out about things they do not understand. Not everyone has the same limits with bondage, domination, submission, sadism and masochism.
It's easy to understand why you might be confused as to what you are going to get when you see the titles of various sex chat sites.
To clarify there are generally two types of adult chat sites, "cam chats" and "sex chats". The camming industry has done their best make people think they are offering a free service when in reality they are not.
I come and go, typically in more frequent then vacant periods of time... Want to talk to someone whose age gap isn't over 5 years.