- the five most important things that men in their mid-40s look for in a woman.
What Mid-40s Men Want in a Woman I surveyed a number of my good midlife male friends over the past several weeks - trying to figure out what most men our age REALLY WANT in a woman. Now I'm 43, and most of my close friends are between 40 and 45 or so ... In other words, what you are about to see transcends educational levels and professions ...
Not everything centered around breast size - although that did come up quite a bit. the others are contractors, real estate agents, some work in aerospace/defense, the legal profession, etc.
but I've also been blessed in my past with a number of busty girlfriends who I have absolutely adored.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - so ladies, please don't think you need to be some perfect-looking little hottie in order to snag a good midlife bachelor - no.
The "nice teeth" comment came from me - no one wants a girlfriend with jacked up teeth - no way! I am saddened by the notion that midlife men don't care at all about the intelligence and logic of a woman but only her appearance and financial assets and I'm not saying this as an ugly feminist either.
I mean apparently it's fine with men if if a woman erroneously believes that it's ok to tax the middle class to death to pay for Obama's form of socialized medicine or you forward every dumb internet forward that comes your way as long as you look hot doing it.The true sign of being 40 and single on a dating site? I knew that the one thing I didn’t want to do was exhaust myself by trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.With the thousands of letters I’d received over the years, the first tone I learned quickly to detect was hopelessness. I didn’t want to go down that path; chasing men I knew probably didn’t want me.5) Wears Tight Clothes We midlife men enjoy women who wear tight clothes - but only if you are at least reasonably hot."Reasonably hot" can mean a lot of different things.I absolutely guarantee you that no matter what you look like, there is a man out there right now that thinks you are hot (even if you are built like a buffalo or a rhinoceros ...