It goes without saying that some people aren’t comfortable with public displays of affection, this is totally natural. Does he want the cute waitress to think he’s just out to dinner with a work colleague?
It’s not that we don’t listen, it’s just that sometimes we genuinely can’t remember smaller details about things.
That being said, though, if we are with a woman we truly care about, we will put in the energy and effort to keep track of things.
________________________________________ A player talks one way, and acts another.
A man (or anyone) can talk a certain way, and then act another way.
A woman’s intuition is a powerful force and yet so many choose to ignore it.
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Too many women get used and hurt by men who are playing with their feelings in order to get what they want, but in reality actually have no intention of commitment or building a relationship together. Sure, but in a more “traditional” sense, men are more notorious for saying all the right things they don’t really mean in order to get what they want – so that’s who we’ll focus on here.
________________________________________ A player makes generalized statements in your direction rather than talking about In other words, could his compliments be copy and pasted into his texts to another girl, or is he talking about something specific to you?
Not only might he always be “too busy” or delay getting together (probably because he’s with another woman), but if his only invitation to you is a Friday night text asking if you want to get a drink, he may have had plans fall through and isn’t showing you the proper amount of effort to actually plan a night around you and your interests. ________________________________________ A player gets upset if you won’t spend the night.
Don’t get me wrong – no single man will turn down physical advances from a woman he is attracted to, but if he is interested in building a relationship, that certainly won’t be his only focus.
________________________________________ A player spends more time talking about himself than trying to get to know you.