I love him so much it took a while for my family to accept that I was dating outside of my race but now they adore him.
But I learn though him how love again and it doesn't have be a black man When I see interracial couples, I always smile because they show the world, We are in love, with no fear or shame. We just show them we don't care how your feel about us. I can tell you, He shows me he loves me, not just in words but action too. So don't let people dictate who you can and can't see. I am in love with a Mexican man and we have been together since we were sixteen!
This takes guts, just read about Richard and Mildred Loving. The Black men I have dated, don't show respect for a Black Lady. We love each other very much but it is so hard because unfortunately people do judge us. When we hold hands in public people stare and one time a lady even shook her head at us!
Of course this was said in spanish which she assumed that I didnt understand.
I believe that interracial dating of all kind is beautiful and people will always have their views, I too speak what's on my mind, but on the other hand just love who you love and care less about what people think. Sometimes when we walk hand and hand down the street we get rude comments and looks, all from black men. It is when you open your mouth that there is a problem.
I agree, but I am the type of person who speaks my mind and it is hard for me to hold back, because of the disrespect we receive.
I did not know there was a problem with a black woman dating a Mexican guy.Im from the south, n I never knew how prejudice my fam was until we started to date.I believe we only got stares because peop didn't know what nationality he was, middle eastern,indian,etc. Sometimes when we walk hand and hand down the street we get rude comments and looks, all from black men. It is when you open your mouth that there is a problem.I am not saying all black men say something rude or look at us weird, but that when it happens, it comes from black men. The way my boyfriend looks at it is "As long as they don't touch us then there is not a problem".But either way it is my business who I date not stupid people on the street. Don't worry about it lil one it's all just hating that's all.