Over dinner, the students would often ask me questions about how to handle this part of their life or another.
And the most frequent topic of conversation that came up was — dating.
That’s why I’m calling the book “The Tao of Dating.” The Tao is Chinese for “the way” — the way the world works.
And it’s that much more effective because it works within your own integrity. Maybe you want to find one special woman and settle down.
Whatever your goal is, The Tao of Dating™ gives you the tools for achieving it — and to feel great about doing it, because at every step of the way, you’re acting with integrity.
At one point, I decided that I was not going to put up with this any more. ” What I found about my newfound success surprised me. At first you think, “This really shouldn’t work — it makes no sense.” But then you try it and, lo and behold, it works.
I found that what actually works in the dating arena is often counterintuitive. It reminded me of the wisdom of the ancient Eastern philosophers, who said things like, “Before you can take something, you must allow for it to be given.” Some of the methods didn’t sit well with me.
And they were surrounded by young, single, beautiful, intelligent women who went to class with them every day, ate meals with them every day, lived literally right next door to them.
Moreover, these women wanted to go out with these guys. While these men had extensive training in how to do well at school, they hadn’t had any training in how to deal with women. But then I suddenly realized: once upon a day, I used to be one of them. I spent time with guys who were really good with women. I tested out hundreds of different ideas and methods, until I finally figured out a little bit about how this dating thing worked.
And I gave them a system made from the best of what I had learned up to that point on meeting and dating women. Because I realized that there are educated, decent-looking, affluent, fun guys everywhere who aren’t having the kind of dating success they truly deserve. So I put together The Tao of Dating™: The Thinking Man’s System for Success With Women.
From my studies of business success and human achievement as a Fortune 100 consultant and hypnotherapist, I realized that success isn’t an accident. It starts with you — who you are and what you want.
Among a group of college guys, that was no surprise.
What was surprising was how little dating was going on.
Nothing is speculative and theoretical here — it’s all hands-on and practical.